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A tulip, skull and hourglass in Philippe de Champaigne's Vanitas
Behavioral ScienceAugust 13, 202612 min readEvergreen

Invincibility Is a Luxury

Young people do not universally feel immortal; threatened adolescents often overestimate their chance of dying. What turns a shortened horizon into presence rather than fatalism is not age or civilization, but agency.

adolescentsconsumer behaviorcultural comparisondecision making
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A person seen as a dark reflection in a wall mirror beside a window
Behavioral ScienceMarch 22, 20269 min readEvergreen

Being Seen as a Body Is Not the Same as Being Reduced to One

We use objectification as if it named one obvious wrong. Philosophy and psychology point to a narrower problem: bodily attention becomes corrosive when it displaces agency, subjectivity, and every other kind of value.

dignitygenderidentitypsychology
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A person on the phone at dusk, leaning on a railing above a city
Behavioral ScienceJanuary 29, 202619 min read

Are You in Love—Or Just Addicted to the Chase?

Is it true love or just an addiction to the chase? This post explores limerence, an obsessive state fueled by dopamine and uncertainty, often mistaken for genuine connection. Understanding this distinction is key to building real relationships.

arranged marriageattachment theorycultural differenceslimerence
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